The Hidden Evil Of The Covert Narcissist

The Hidden Evil Of The Covert Narcissist

[Music] Hello everyone. This is Dr. Liv with live with New Insight and thank you so much for joining me in another video. In today’s video, I would like to talk to you about the malicious ways of the covert narcissist. The covert narcissist is a special kind of evil. The evil you don’t see or feel until you’re allin heart, mind, body, and soul. They slowly groom you and manipulate you until your defenses are down. They gain your trust and win your heart. They pretend to be your biggest supporter, claiming to have all of this admiration, respect, and love for you, claiming to be the one that will always have your back and hold you down. When you try to have a mature adult conversation with a covert narcissist to clarify or resolve issues, they’ll do things such as smirk, laugh, walk off, pretend to be asleep, pretend to not hear you, and pretend to not remember or understand certain things. And all of this is game, an immature, weak, manipulative tactic to trigger you, discredit and devalue you, and make you seem crazy. The covert narcissist especially can seem so chill, laidback, calm, reserved, and unproatic, which lures you in. And in reality, all of their diabolical and debaucherous ways are going on behind the scenes. They can seem so familyoriented, for example, when many times they are using family to cover up for them and will also recruit certain family members to form alliances against you. And especially during the devaluation and discard phase and smear campaign, the covert narcissist can seem so shy and introverted and in reality they’re sneaky and often very flirtatious. They’re cunning and conniving and it’s like sleeping with the enemy. They have no loyalty and no love for you. It’s all fake, all a facade. And the more good you do for them, the more evil they do behind your back. So tell me, have you met a person like this? And what attracted you to this person? And how would you describe the nature of your relationship, situationship, or experience with this person? It’s so important to trust your intuition. Listen to what your logic is telling you and not just your emotions. Be able to separate facts from feelings. Focus on what is and not what was or what could be or should be. And focus on what you have right here and right now with this person and not just on what you want. Ask yourself the important relationship questions. Let them know your standards upfront and don’t silence yourself out of anxiety or fear of losing someone or eagerness and desperation for love. You’d rather know what it is or what it isn’t right now instead of months and years down the road. And most of them are in your life for selfish reasons to begin with and for a good time, not a long time. At least not a long time to give you love and security. That is instead it’s a long time of headache, heartache, and pure hell, including breadcrumbming, gaslighting, abuse, and neglect. And many of them have no manners or etiquette, no moral compass, and could care less about any type of boundaries and consequences. And that’s the BC’s. So understand that this type of person is incapable of connecting with you on a genuine and meaningful level and cannot develop a healthy and functional relationship with you because they’re not a healthy and functional individual. And we have to understand that no amount of love or loyalty from us can change that. And also understand that sometimes you have to do what’s hard and you have to do that which you fear the most for your own peace, happiness, and self-love. Thanks for watching and I’ll see you in another video. [Music]

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Covert narcissists don’t always raise red flags at first. Their charm is subtle, their manipulation is quiet, and their tactics are often hidden under a mask of humility or kindness. But make no mistake—their behavior can be just as damaging as overt narcissism as they commonly use:

→ Passive-aggressive comments
→ Victim-playing
→ Emotional neglect
→ Gaslighting and silent treatment

These behaviors slowly chip away at your mental health, leaving you confused, anxious, self-critical, and emotionally exhausted. Recognizing these signs early can help you protect your peace, rebuild your self-trust, and make empowered decisions in your relationships.

If you’ve ever questioned your reality, doubted your worth, or felt emotionally drained after dealing with someone—this video is for you. Awareness is your first step toward healing. 💜

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