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THIS Formula EXPLAINS Human Behavior



THIS Formula EXPLAINS Human Behavior

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  1. @coopertown7867 on

    He's right. Im seeing childhhod like behavior out of him as well. He is telling us what he thinks we want to hear in order to get praise from us all😂😂😂

  2. @TOGAB on

    Wrong, it happens before 8 or 9. Show me the boy at 7 and I'll show you the man- Jesuits.
    My depression and perceptions on life were well established lonnnng before 9. It was only 2 years later I had a pistol to my little head. So no brother you are making a generalization like many "experts" do and always have done. Be careful who you consider "expert"

  5. @KosimaShiva on

    Hhhmmm… And what if you have a person who healed their inner child?

    After therapy and working on themselves I am pretty sure people can change their behaviors.

    So I don’t fully agree here.

    But still in general I agree that our childhood is the cause of most of the learned behaviour we‘ll need to deal with as an adult.

    I didn’t live with my family since I was 13yo and still was dealing with behavioral issues till I was way over 25yo that had just been programmed into me…

    There were certain situations where I was just reacting, it was kind of robotic. I really didn’t like myself for that but I would always behave the same in those kind of situations, like on autopilot. I was reacting in a way I wouldn’t react if I would have a choice.

    And at some point I saw myself from the outside and was able to ask myself: ‚What the heck are you doing? And why’
    The answer is that I remembered it had been very normal in my family to react that way, to use this tone or this type of words.

    It took me years of work to take back my subconscious mind and to have the power of my own reactions and behavior.

    I can’t imagine how it hard it needs be for ppl who need to live with their toxic family till they are 18y or older… So much bad influence…

  7. @katiefromcolorado4972 on

    My mom calls eight the age of reasoning. I think you should spoil a child rotten until they’re eight. Then at eight, slowly take away everything you’ve given them with explanation why. And then at 12 when they’re looking for God and spirituality, you give them nothing ever again. And you tell them that if they ever have anything in their hand, there are to bring it to mom and dad first and then they get their share.

  9. @theembarrassingmamamuahahaha on

    How can I help my 11 year old daughter to grow up to be a happy, healthy, securely attached adult? For half a decade, starting when she was about 3, our family life was toxic. I used substances daily, to survive and ((hardly)) function. Lots of fighting between her dad n I. Lots and lots and lifetimes of regret for those years. My daughter is highly anxious, reactive, angry, and aggressive now, and I understand it's because we failed her for so long. I'm trying to right my wrongs, am sober, and doing much better, but she and I trigger each other like no one else, we both get reactive, and anxious, and although I'm trying with everything I've got to be kind, patient, and reassuring, I'm terrified about the years to come. I want her to become the strong, successful, happy human she deserves to be, and I'm petrified she too will turn to chemicals for survival, as she saw us do for so long. I don't need more shame here, I am more aware of my failure than anyone. I need some help. Advice. A direction to explore. I'll never forgive myself if I can't turn this around for her. I'd die 1000 deaths to help her. Yes, therapy ((individual and family)), diagnostic assessment ((suspect she may have adhd like I do)), all that is in the works, but there's no one on the planet who's opinion I'd value more than yours here, Mr.Hughes... Not just saying it, I mean it. If you see this, thanks for your work, and thanks for reading.

  14. @AronBryan-k9u on

    I dont need friends. As the last decade has shown me. Its lonely, but i like silence and peace much better than having conversation. Its why i like you tube sometimes. I give my thoughts but dont care about conversation. Im sure some could keep up, but usually not so much. These days, id rather not find out which ones are worth it or not. Ive found that common sense seems to only be on social media. So do the opposite, but i dont have to listen to them. Lol

  17. @Patriotx-gx4ce on

    We are not product.I guess some people never grow up.
    True for so many.
    Stoicism.
    Past was once now, all we have is now.
    Discover your short commings, mediate, affirm who you wanna be, visualize your future and feel what you imagine.
    Become better each day.
    Many are stuck, alawys blaming surroundings and others for their own created issues.
    End the cycle.

  22. @nataliadagon on

    I react very bad to comflicts because no one ever even raised voice in our family in my early childhood,, I have no friends because we lived in remote village with a few homes and no other children except for me and my siblings who were isolating me, I work my ass to be rewarded and I love socialising.

  24. @IzazovDuha on

    The knowledge in Social Secrets Mastery is game-changing. If you’re serious about mastering social interactions, this is a must-read!

  26. @nohashehata9068 on

    I always say and remember that re evaluate human behavior to Egyptians 60 million under the age of 30 and effect of that on terrorism and how they cover it the abuse is infrastructure withen the Egyptian society mejor and locally and by power abuse any kind of power abuse any wiepon or using sycology for brain washing conarting any thing by any one

  27. @nohashehata9068 on

    They like to creat any reality and use it over any one and they know how to get away of murder with total justification and use a human live or over his dead body look close to their Egyptian society mejor in the past 10 years and take a close look to the future by their nature very high number and normalized by them

  30. @homegown1234 on

    I behaved to conflict at 9 years old I realized my mother was different or was a "USER" later learned I meant to say, "narcissist." What I did getting out of the school bus by deciding to wash my clothes, iron and learned to save half of my lunch money. It made me proud knowing I could take care of myself. As I got older I learned to keep quiet over things I knew how to do due to a mother that would try to take things away from me if she knew how i managed to have money as I got older. For a short time I had a small business asking my neighbors to ask them if they needed milk and bread but only a few things since I never had a red wagon. I did it for a while until I realized it could be dangerous. I have a strong intuition to stay safe which has helped me stay alive for so many years – which I am now 78 years old. I believe why I turned out this way at age 8, when I was bothered by my mother – I prayed and asked God to be my father not just in heaven but here on Earth. Things changed for me, and I felt safe and protected by knowing God with the help of Jesus Christ was my protector and the Holy Spirit provided special guidance. Faith is everything and I have never forgot the prayer to God about being my father on Earth. I learned to deal with conflict due to our 4th stepfather was bothering me. When I learned by my neighbors of my stepfather exposing himself, I told them I would handle it and at 14 years old I "marched" into my mother's bedroom and spoke these words., "If he doesn't behave himself, I will call the POLICE! My mother cried and said, "you don't want me to be happy, you will grow up and leave me?" At that moment I wondered who the adult or it was me. I knew I was more mature as I got older and can deal with situations. Finally, he behaved but I was vigilant to watch him whenever I could. I believe I put the fear of God in him and my narcissistic mom.! After all, God was my father now and nothing bad will happen.

  31. @katherynbuckman2522 on

    I liked to meet new people and really wanted to be close to them.

    I stayed safe by play acting to be somewhere else or be someone else.

    I would get into conflict but backed down when it would get out of hand.

  33. @ginnygiraudi1996 on

    Does anyone else sometimes feel like you are the only one who grew up and became an adult? There are some groups where I always feel like this. Other groups, I feel that I am the one who is still a child. These are the people I learn so much from. I don't believe we are static and stuck in childhood patterns; all of us are so much more than what happened to us as children, and how we coped with it when it did. But maybe understanding people like this helps during interrogations when you must quickly decide how best to manipulate a person into telling you what they would prefer to keep to themselves.

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