It’s Not Desire, It’s Survival (Trauma and Hypersexuality Explained)

This video is really helpful. I have a friend of mine who does suffer from hypersexuality due to tramua in their early childhood, and Ive been trying to understand it better to understand their perspective. Thank you!

No is also a choice & often safer. ❤

Why did I feel a little relieved and ashamed watching this?

that makes sense

Sorry, I don't really understand what this means ?

I love your videos. All of them have a lot of meaning to them, and I learn a lot. Thank you.❤

This shorts was inspired by a fan who opened up about their journey with hypersexuality after trauma. It’s something many people silently struggle with, yet it’s rarely discussed. Please share this video who might need it. You might help them out!

We also hope this short reminds you that healing is possible, and that seeking help is a sign of strength not shame. 💛

Long form video on Dealing With Sexual Trauma and Psychological Impacts: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GmGpGKEBCL0

Similar happened to me after my non-consentual childhood circumcision which was, sadly, done forcefully and without any anesthesia when I was around 11/12. Since then I have had only one girlfriend (and the only one ever, as of now) who didn't even know about this part of me until we were around a year together already. The pain of talking about it was horrendous, but even worse was the fact that she was 95% asexual and genuinely not horny almost ever, while I was "horny" often (if being horny means asking her a lot about circumcision thoughts, experiences (she had no boyfriends before) and general sexual stuff).
We broke up around 2 months ago and the pain is still fresh because one day when we were both actually in the mood I indirectly went too far by asking her to do something to me for what she was unprepared to do. The thing is we absolutely always talked about consent and had maximum consent-strictness about anything, but what was the tipping point sadly was me going too far, purely because I was so terribly insecure about myself (and still am) and my 'part'.
I have been really depressed after we broke up because I miss the feeling of safety, honesty and genuine trust between anyone, especially someone who knew my darkest and most painful secret that is nothing more than a terrible trauma that was done for no medical or religious reason, just because the parents had a "why the hell not" moment, even though my country basically never does circumcisions.
I miss her so bad, but I also feel terribly guilty for misguiding my trauma responses to being horny and then making her feel uncomfortable.

I dont have hypersexuality, honestly I dont think i wanna be in a relationship, it feels like too much work to manage for someone like me