Psychiatrist Explains The Truth In Giving Out Answers
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If you carry others, they'll never learn how to walk.
Ah yes, the "don't do my job" approach
One of my favorite mental health techniques.
The client doing the work is important, like an athlete doing the rehab for a torn ACL.
BUT, the doctor still needs to do the doctor part first (repair the ACL).
If someone has a brain malfunction, that needs to be fixed first; the acute suffering needs to be stopped before the rehab begins.
This aged like fine wine with the rise of ai
I love this analogy, especially because I'm really good at math and this has cleared up this topic very well ❤
SLOW DOWN 😮😮😮
I'm so grateful for the strength mentors like you have to assist all kinds of people. You and your practice are gifts. Thank you. ❤🌈 ☀
this actually makes a lot of sene when you say it like that
Yes! 🎯 This is exactly what I learned in Early Childhood Education. We focused more on development (cognitive, social, emotional, etc) & psychology than on simply "how to teach" various subjects as in elementary & secondary Ed. Children (& apparently adults) are at different levels of reasoning, due not only to genetics but to past & current experiences. Same with life & relationships. I believe overall communication is better when you understand the other person's POV. Unfortunately the average person doesn't seem to care about seeing mine/others. Understanding (better) one another is the key to having empathy & compassion.
“It” HAS to feeeeel like I came to the conclusion myself for it to truly be an Aha!
For sure. My long term partner recently broke up with me, and he didn’t really give me concrete info / reasons, even after 6 years. It’s been devastating and frustrating.
Instead of relying on him for the answers that I deserve, I’ve been having to self-discover ways that this is going to be a good thing for me overall.
lol the person calls themselves fallenartorias yet they clearly didn't get the message of Dark Souls
Perfect answer .learn honestly . Thank you learn and teach.
Maths… 😍⚛️ The analogy here is extremely on point!
bro we dont have the money dont make us read the freud
This is exactly what Therapy is. Such an incredible way of breaking this down
Facts!
So it's inception
Never seen this story but you know part of my career is just sitting with people either giving out explanations or carving out why something's not working or how it should work – as a developer in a team. Useful stuff
you explain to him like let's say you have 7 toys. Now your parents brought 4 more. You keep them together and count. How much do you get ? 🤝
This is so well explained! 👏
Fallenartorias?
@HealthyGamerGG I worked with some psychologists a none of them couldn't teach me anything and I wasn't able to learn it on myself and was so stressed out I didn't realize how stuck I was. I lost 20years to that. I would have needed to tell me directly, how stuck I was, which I still am because i'm 41 with the skills of a 15year old
Throughout school (neuropsych), a lot of my colleagues had a hard time grasping this. I just slowly helped them discover that this was not the career path for them.
Nothing more endangering than a Healthcare professional thinking they are "allowed" to control everyone's thoughts and opinions. One intern literally told her client "I'm allowed to tell you you're not allowed to identify as mixed because you look more black anyways. If you just stayed in your black place you wouldn't have depression". YIKES
My boyfriend gets mad because his therapist doesn't give him the answers. Exactly this is what I'm trying to tell him. He needs to give himself answers and a therapist only points in a direction where an answer could be.
I love this guy.
Teach a man to fish…
But you can also extrapolate the rules of addition just by looking at addition questions and their answers.
To me, there’s NOTHING worse than going for coaching, counselling or therapy and some berk asks you: “So how do you think you can get through this?” If I knew the sodding answer, I wouldn’t be there!!!!
If I “learn” by being told something I have to be told it repeatedly until it becomes something I “know” which can take months/years
And for people like me, I’d like to have the answer of ‘11’ first, then you can explain the whole process to me. Without that 11, I can’t hear whatever you say, so basically that is why I hate modern therapy and never went to one: therapists are told to guide instead of giving answers directly, but I just need answer first. I can figure out the process myself. When I was in primary school, I used to copy the exact right answer for comprehension questions in homework. In case teachers bother me, I paraphrase it a little bit, but I indeed copy the answer. Guess what? I got full marks in finals, because I learn from those ‘right’ answers. Wandering on the road with a bunch of wrong answers does not give you right answers. See those right answers and repeat them led me to top1 grade student. Guidance is like intentionally giving frustration and wrong answers, then revealing the right one in the end, like it could be deeper or more effective. No, it does not. If you have been trying to figure out the murderer in a detective story for years and someone just guide you for months and finally give you the answer, will you be happy? I won’t. I come here and pay you for the answer, not your guidance. No offense. Just my personal opinion on the whole guidance thing in modern psychotherapy.