How to Teach Kids Independence Fast #parenting #parentingtips #psychology #humanbehavior
If you’re doing a bunch of stuff for your kids in the morning before school, what are you doing? Kids are able to get up, brush their teeth, get dressed, make their bed, clean their room, make their lunch, get their breakfast, like get ready for school, make sure that their homework is in there and ready to go. Like, that’s how you’re teaching kids to be prepared for the world. So many parents get exhausted. Yeah. They’re they’re miserable. They’re just like they’re up until 10 o’clock every night doing their kids homework, homework, dishes, trash, cleaning up after their kids, preparing the next stuff for the day, making tomorrow’s lunches. They’re just doing so many things. Yeah. And the kids can be doing all those things to be an absolute help and blessing in the
How to Teach Kids Independence Fast.
Credit: Brandon Turner
Speaker: Scott Donnell
Scott Donnell reveals the #1 mistake parents make and how to fix it to raise independent children. Learn parenting tips, emotional intelligence, and self-awareness to raise strong, resilient kids.
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True,that what i do exactly how i learned it. They will be responsible and happy kids
I homeschool, that’s how I teach them to prepare
Mmmm except when your child is autistic with demand avoidance.😐
I don’t say nothing to my kid. They know what they’re supposed to do: make the bed, make the breakfast (for them and I), make your lunch, brush your hair, your teeth, and wash your face, and put some clothes on.
Life Skills
Why it says girl dads need to hear this in the caption? Like your daughter's can do all this for you and your sons? Lol
Annnnd how many kids has this guy raised to grown?
Not a 4 yr old and blind disabled teen lol
Us Asian at five you get child labor, work those little happy do simple task, Americans too protective of their kids and end up kids learning nothings. Teach them responsibility by giving simple task, kids learn very fast and they feel happy they help the family, if you teach them at teenagers, you’re late, the personality all set in.
I loved getting up every morning and making my son a hot hearty breakfast— I only had one, and was able to do it. It comforted me knowing he was well fed for school. Outstanding student—biomed engineer now. Supporting and feeding himself quite well. Which is a blessing to me.
My mom only woke us up but we did everything ourselves tho
Hmmm mum of 4 here…he partly right
This guy is a Troll. 100% lol. What a clown!!
The last yt short before this one said to not yell at your kids ever. What do I do?
My 4 year old already helps make his preschool lunch. He WANTS to.
This is garbage advice
True…
You are not your child's servant. As soon as they are old enough to show interest in helping, you put them to work. It builds character and self-reliance.
I think there's a balance with this…kids need to be taught basic life skills but also need to be nurtured and know that they are taken care of and they have someone to help.
Bro shut up. You’re exhausting to listen to. It’s a process, not a snap of your fingers and your kids just do that. I enjoy making my kids lunch. I enjoy helping my kids get ready and it impresses me more when they say… hey dad, I do this myself
At the age of 12, I would take my dog for walks in the park, come home, feed him, and put dirty clothes in the washing machine without shrinking them. My mum would get home around 6 pm. Dinner was more leisurely because Mum was a chef. And often brought home excellent food.
At what age kids can do all of this independently?
Deeppp
He is talking to a generation that had to do that growing up. So now we do that for our kids because we want to see and do more for our children that we didn't get growing up.
Amen
How old are we talking here?
I have no recollection of my parents ever making my bed, or making my breakfast, except maybe Sunday mornings, when mom made it for the whole family. If I didn't pack my lunch, I didn't get lunch.
It's not one way or the other, or it doesn't have to be, every family has its own dynamics. But in ours, it's a bit of both, some times mom or dad makes waffles and helps with breakfast, other times the girls make the breakfast, and their lunches, it's all just a big family effort and a good time mostly, some grumpy starts sometimes, but you just try to do tomorrow better than today