The Surprising Symptom of Depression- Anger and Irritability

Discover how depression can manifest as anger and irritability—learn to recognize and manage these symptoms to improve emotional well-being and relationships.
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Media portrays the depressed person as struggling to get out of bed, crying, drowning in despair. And while sadness is indeed a key symptom of depression, it’s not the only way it shows up. Anger or irritability is actually one of the primary ways that depression shows up in children and teens. But that anger doesn’t just turn off when you turn 18. So, today we’re going to peel back the layers and explore how depression manifests as anger and irritability.

Irritability and Anger are Symptoms of Depression
Depression isn’t just feeling sad, it’s a whole-body experience that can impact every aspect of your life. Symptoms include losing pleasure in activities, changes in appetite or sleep, and often feeling sad, empty or hopeless. But researchers estimate that 30-40% of people experience rage or anger as part of their depression. Sometimes these emotions can be so overpowering that one researcher calls them “Anger attacks” he relates them to panic attacks. Other research showed that of 500 people with depression, over half of them experienced anger attacks, but that when they received treatment, like antidepressant medication, that anger subsided for the majority of them.

Another long-term study found anger is associated with more severe or chronic depression, higher rates of substance abuse, and it’s also linked to familial bipolar disorder.
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00:00 Intro
01:52 Five Reasons Why Depression Might Show Up As Anger
06:51 What to do When Depression Shows up as Anger or Irritability
10:18 Depression is Treatable

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The Surprising Symptom Of Depression: Anger And Irritability

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30 Comments

  1. This video was eye opening to me, I’m not very aware of what I’m feeling generally but experience everything you mentioned and feel so bad about every time any of that happens, I thought I was just an a$$hole and that broke my heart, now I think I have a broken heart that is making me act like an A$$hole, so I’m excited to try to focus on the underlying stuff as a way to take responsibility for these bad behaviors I really want to change and have something finally move and get better

  2. I’m starting to think that just getting a divorce from my husband will be away for me to control my environment because my husband left me three times and our 10 years of marriage and he came back but he drives me nuts.

  3. I have been on antidepressants for over 20 years and I have always been not the friendliest person. It makes it hard to have any friendships or relationships in general.

  4. Why is anger associated with depression?Here’s why. Bc people are so tired of feeling the way they feel bc of how their life has went bc of others.We take personal attacks on the daily from people not respecting or valuing the life we want for ourselves. We get so depressed bc we are drained and wore tf out from everyone else constantly sabotaging and destroying our goal at life peace. So after so long you’re going to get mad and lash out.

  5. My therapist tells me that internalised anger is a large cause of my depression and anxiety, it's true that I rarely express anger and rather keep it locked in, my therapist is working with me to open up and express my anger.

  6. Okay, I just started the video, and it seems to be on point with me😢 and I'm an adult!!!! Depression he'll yeah. But I never knew why I be so angry or upset over every little 😅 thing🤦🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️ not only that I keep things bottled up…
    😮 you nailed it!!!!!!

  7. Thanks… I never realized that's why I'm so tired… whenever my depression is "worse", I just feel tired of life. But yeah now I realize it's consuming so much of my physical strength too.

  8. I became like this all the time, couldn’t even get the word out to my family because Im thinking they wouldn’t believe me it’s just all a made up lie or I’m just acting stupid.
    So there would be nobody to talk about my own issues besides a therapist or a doctor, So I would just wait for a while until it will be that time and kept on thinking “I know a therapist is going to help me out.” until I’m thinking that it won’t.

  9. I suspect…
    Anger is a trauma syptom.
    Not just depression but entering depression with past trauma or anticipated trauma.
    Karens are hyper traumatized people with a protective instinct that is misdirected… for any gender.

  10. Depression or anger who care. When you feel this 24 hour perd day for years non stop what is the point of living ??? Totally useless. We need to legalized medical death assistance. Living a entire life suffering and being angry all the time it's not a life, it's only Hell and keeping us alive is a crime against humanity. We want to die with peace in digniity ans respect.

  11. Epilepsy hit my 23 yrs old after giving birth. It has ruined our mother daughter bond. It's getting so bad I'm literally about to just disappear so I won't have to see her like that.

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