Signs You’re Being Manipulated – Dr Julie #shorts
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Even Christians manipulate you, they get the shit out of you whether they’re Jehovah witness or evangelical they want you to be a part of the church by pretending to be your friend and in the end we’ll figure it out for yourself in the end
Just like Christians do to people to get them to be a part of their church am I wrong??
Isn’t that what Christians do and inviting people to the church? It’s exactly what happened to me. I have to listen to that person‘s problems and where do I sign the data line it’s like the church is hypocritical because you do the same thing to people you manipulate people to be part of the church, which is disgustingly deceptive it happened to meEvangelicals are the worst Jehovah wins. Jehovah witnesses are second. I guess I mean you do the same tactics but yeah, you don’t see it because you’re the ones doing it to other people but what happens to you oh my God that’s evil. Maybe she open your eyes and think before
Seems like what happened to me with Christians I invited you and I am. It is all about manipulation. You guys know everything about manipulation come on stop being hypocrites you did it happened to me Christian oh you’re my friend but when I said something wrong, you cast me out because I’m thel the leper on the disease because I didn’t say all the right words phrases, and I don’t have the codes in the yeah that kicked out of Christianity because I didn’t say the right code language
I'd like to hear some non-obvious ones
Sounds like the Narcissist I’ve been dealing with for seven years finally escaped
3 is just like me. I need to change
How do I get out of their grip now that I’ve realised for the past three years my own family has done it to me. I’m so drained and exhausted like someone who’s been treading in an ocean and now has no energy or a way to get back to shores. I’ve lost my send of self and my autonomy.
Why does there have to be a motive maybe people are just human and are oblivious to right and wrong naturally but not over indulging in psychology
Psychologist are victims
Human Psychology is one of the complex thesis on this earth,a brain can built a small hut,at the same time it can destroy the whole colony😔
Would public defenders work like that to help defend you or they do or do they do it in their best interest as a state
I often wonders why not address the problem headon but instead address it in passive voice
No accountability.
No. 2 is alot like my mom she dose something nice for me her son and then when I don't wanna do something I don't wanna do she holds that against me as if I'm being rude and I'm the bad guy like somehow she's the victim of my refusal she basically
Trys to guilt trip me into doing somthing
☝️MANIPULATION☝️
Maybe this is me… I don't even know why whyw whyw… I need to get out of this. I may not like what I have been through but I myself being this way is very hateful.. Even I hate myself… I want to get out of this feeling but I can't get out of it.
Me
Why you gotta talk about my mom in the internet like that? 😂😂😂
But I wish so so much that she could have figured out that she was only stealing love from herself. 😭😭😭
Anyway, thanks for the clarity and help❤
1. Def people do this all the time to me then 2 and 3 – well I’m guilty of doing that to people
That's spot on
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They don't even " do things " for anyone! They make their life miserable. Abusers that take but never give back, always find a way to shift the blame, and their low qualities on the others.
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I’m at a lost and the person won’t quit, they are so low lvl that they include kids in there abuse.
This is in some way similar to my Situation with the mother figure. She often uses others pain as a way to be deemed empathetic but continuously lies everything. As if she's trying to rage-bate me (if she sees I'm drinking coffee) and if I attempt to provide a reason as to why she's wrong, then she'll wrap up the conversation with "oh, let's not get into that". She also gets a lot of tactical counseling from her acquaintances, who either believe her bs or just like muddying the water. Anyway, the sooner my dog and I are gone, the better.
This is more of a narcissist or a simple minded manipulator. The most dangerous kinds of manipulators aren’t the ones who are loud, obnoxious and play you off as if your life/situations are worthless. The most dangerous manipulators are silent they don’t argue but listen they learn your triggers, and insecurities. They agree with you, or so you are led to think, they don’t manipulate you using anger but instead use suggestive language leading you to believe you are the one who made the choice. By the time you noticed it it’s too late they already got what they wanted from you. These types of manipulators are few and far between, but they exist.
You have not got a clue because your not in my situation and position.
Even noticing your anxiety means you’re already growing🌱
Thank you, I've been manipulated and abused my whole Childhood, now I'm happy that I can trust myself again 🍀
Wow.
This is incredible.🥺
That sounds right…
Number 3 hurts so bad. 5 years of this, yet I’m too scared to tell her it’s enough 😰
This is exactly my mom- that’s why I went no contact
Wow… where do I go to not know people like this?😮😮. Let us know Doc❤
She stood up just so she could sit down at the start. Doesn’t sit right with me. Boo