Give Me 15 Minutes… I’ll Save You 25+ Years Of Feeling Lonely, Depressed & Lost | Dr. Gabor Maté
Check out the full interview I did with Dr. Gabor Maté: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7iUa7jtb50E
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Relax kiddo !!! 😚
Relax you f.s.o.b.
Excellent discussion. Great questions and thoughts.
“I’m 29, and since around the age of 22 I’ve been interested in psychology and have read various authors. I find it fascinating to observe people — how they interact and why — both people I’ve known for a long time and myself as well: how my thoughts, interactions, and behavior have changed over the years. And overall, I realized something — you need to be simpler, look at life with positivity no matter how hard it gets, and especially treat yourself well.
And when Gabor showed this phrase, ‘Hmm, interesting, why did I do that?’ I realized I had independently come to approach myself with that same kind of curiosity whenever I did something weird or when something didn’t work out. Not ‘Are you an idiot?’ but specifically ‘Hmm, interesting.’
I’m watching this video thinking, ‘Wow, I arrived at this conclusion on my own, and I didn’t need as many years of life experience or clinical practice as Gabor did. I somehow understood it myself.’” “Hmm, interesting… am I awesome?” 😁
Healing isn't possible, just somehow dealing with it on a daily basis.
What a load of rubbish
Many of Us are Aggressive (Get annoyed for the slightests of reasons) because Modern Society has failed Humanity.
Humanity is being manfactured.
How can someone escape by fighting and achieving all goals the life of extremely bad habbits that are destroying a persons life and everything about him and making him fade away
Great stuff but the editing here is quite jarring.
13:48 Parenting 1-0-1
10:58 six seveeen
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@drgabormate9132 @dougbopst1 why does our 7-year old, child-brained stupid friend think telling himself, “there’s something wrong with me, and maybe if I work hard enough, I can fix it,” would protect himself back then (and also continually)?
I need help right now
that is an amazing video with Dr. Máté Péter. it reached me when I needed it
Before you waste 15 minutes of your life scroll
What a string of stupid platitudes. This guy is a total fraud.
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Thank you, fantastic video, very helpful information. There's so many channels full of "textbook parrots". This is first hand knowledge taught by someone who has lived it, very thought provoking and truthful.
best way to overcome that victim mindset is to find jesus and follow the path the shows you..no more no less…❤
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You in Pittsburgh pa help me been working on self for decades
Excuse me but this is not a helpfull conversation to listen to for a person who is in a "situation". maybe it is not the right issue to come up with a title like this.
Such sound advice, Gabor Mate is a gift to so many people, I wish I had his knowledge to help people. My hero ❤
Good to be emotionally present with your children.
Last time I had sex covid was happening.
Actually that's a lie the last time I had sex two years ago with another hiv+ transsexual prostitute. I wasted my entire 20s and teens and all my life basically on transsexuals, porn and transsexual porn. Now I don't even want to leave I just want to die with my mistakes
I deeply respect Dr Gabor Maté But it costs to take therapies
0:29 Umm, I absolutely am having that experience now . In fact it's never really stopped, it's just been weaker at times.
I am a counselor but my healing came from surrendering my self to Universe. I stopped looking outside myself for healing.
I hear you, many therapists do not get it. I was one of those therapists who wondered why therapists did not teach about trauma . I found healing through inner work and connection with source.
IFS is very questionable. I have witnessed people go crazy from it. As someone who did different therapies for decades, I think that too much delving can be harmful. I have to accept that some of this, like the grief I carry, may not be healed. Mindfulness has worked best for me…cultivating non-judgmental awareness of my thoughts and feelings. I also take an antidepressant, and that helps with OCD and depression.
You got let your trauma goo
Money aint the healer, but its the biter.
So youre gonna need it for the antidote, though the poisoin might kill you on the way.
Dont shortcut it.
Community has been replaced by government in the west 💔
It’s must be the culture of alcohol and drugs that makes the West such a dangerous place for children. In other dry countries the children have good childhood but issues with school, discrimination and racism. Not all trauma is from childhood some is from abuse as an adult. Also men should not use women bodies as a self care system.
Really struggling for 29 months, 6 physciatric admissions, 3 by ambulance. I had to leave a toxic job of 16 years, 29 months ago. I have no friends or family. I lost my mum tragically I was living with her. The mornings are the worst. Just worn down with severe morning anxiety, hopelessness, loneliness. I am on meds. I am seeing a physciatrist. I tried one to one therapy it doesn't work for me. Just worn down from crying and isolation. Finding it so hard to get well 😪
I can’t hear any solutions advertised in the title unfortunately 😢😢