I really understand this and it’s not just a phase or in any way attention seeking it’s them calling for help and I myself know what this feels like and experience it for years till one day I got myself help it happened by trying to end it all and with one call and I was in the mental hospital
Today my mom said I was lazy and had a lazy demon inside of me me for bed rotting and she also mocked me for saying she’s body shaming🙃 this what moms are supposed to do?
My parents always say being tired from every day activities isn't anything with mental health. Just time rewinding back to my sixth grade year, I was bullied consistently over for having three learnings disabilities.1- Dyslexia| 2- Dyscalculia| 3- Short term memory recall. So overall I was too scared to reach out to my teachers for help and support in class. Especially in math. I was failing numerous classes to the point I wanted to drop out. Then it eventually got to the rate where my math teacher treated me like a rat. Telling my entire math period and all of his other periods that I had my disabilities. Which made everything *Worse*. After a few weeks, then I was forced into dating two people in the span of a week. Dating a girl, whom I didn't like whatsoever, considering I'm straight. Then forced into dating a boy who at the time was popular. Threatening that he'd turn the school against me if I didn't. So of course. I did. After three months we broke up considering I wasn't ready whatsoever. Then the next day in my gym class, i was playing soccer with my lonesome, considering all my friends ghosted me in seconds. Hearing them talking by the shed by the goal I was playing near. The words being : " Let's kill Sophie." then "But with what?" then to the answer of "bring guns to school." . Reporting the kids, who lied saying they didnt. Which overall got all of the parents involved, principal did nothing but filed a restraining order. WHAT WILL THAT DO? KEEPING SOMEONE FROM TALKING TO ME WHEN I HAD EVERY CLASS WITH THEM?! *Great job*. Headed to the police station across the street to file a sue to the teacher and students. But it closed as soon as we arrived.
It makes it 10 times worse that they still know my address after transferring districts.
To this day, I'm still extremely traumatized from these past incidents. Getting rarley any help.
Mine were great…. To my brother. I am ment to be the angel youngest child with loads of friends high grades and open minded. And I look like it from the outside but I have started cracking and I’m scared
My parents are the same way I told my therapist how I have been feeling and she called my parents I told her not to but she did anyway they told her I was just attention seeking and my therapist actually toke their side and when I go home I was yelled at I feel like everyone is against me and no matter how hard I try to explain nobody ever understands.
"why are you such an angry girl?" "you have nothing to be angry about, you live in a great house, outstanding education, and us. You're such an ungrateful brat" They just said that to me bruh
I feel this… I have adhd autism and anxiety and depression and they always call me lazy. That doesn’t help. That just makes me feel worse!! 😢 I need a hug please
“Mum I feel like I had adhd” “No, your not crazy, people like that have nothing else better to do so stop talk that nonsense’ “…” (Those are the exact words she told me)
I struggle with my mental health at the moment I’m finally getting help but the things is my stepdad doesn’t believe in mental health but I’m so grateful that I have my mum that does believe in mental health and she’s the one who has actually gotten me some professional help for my mental health
That's exactly how my parents are that's why i basically hide all my emotions and act happy so they can leave me alone also you're my happy place, you make me feel understood and you're my fav YouTuber 🙂
My parents think I don’t like them bc i’m in a phase where i think it’s cool to hate them, they also think i do sh for attention and all my problems are caused by hormones
My mom never believes me about my mental health and then she asks if I'm ok and then I try to explain and she just says that I'm lying or giving excuses 🙁
Seriously I wish I become a parent. I will be putting my kids and I will not blame mental illnesses on anything like that. They will be allowed to feel their feelings and have mental illnesses because it’s human and they’re real.
There are no parents here, only children who are trying to reach out. My mom only see my mental health as an excuse and blames games for it. She told me to change my mindset and quit playing game. Even though, games are the only thing left keeping me living.
My mom has anxiety and depression well she’s gotten better but when I ask her for anything that can help she doesn’t believe when I say I have anxiety depression and a ed and when I told her I harm myself she yelled at me and said I was a attention seeker
yeahh.. so my mom said “you are too young for depression!” when i told her i wanted to die and had no motivation, and when i said “mom i think im lesbian “ she said “ its not true your mind is playing tricks on you, so shut up!” so yeah sorry for saying so much.
They always say “you can talk to me about anything” but then when you do they that your making things up that your making excuses, that your just being dramatic and that you are to young to have any real problems.
Yep and when i ask if i can get a plushie (for emotional support) they say “no no no no too expensive” then my lil bro walks in with a 70 dollar lego set he is FIVE
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I’m so scared to tell my parents anything that I dug and took tests myself and now I know I have depression and I’m getting bullied
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I really understand this and it’s not just a phase or in any way attention seeking it’s them calling for help and I myself know what this feels like and experience it for years till one day I got myself help it happened by trying to end it all and with one call and I was in the mental hospital
'your too young'
'its a phase'
'its just hormones, your growing'
'stop whining'
'just go play'
She tells me if I have a problem to talk to her. HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO DO THAT.
It's not my parents it's my narcissist papaw
Sometime I wish they would have tried to understand the way I feels when they say I am overreacting😢
I have bin in all those places intil my sister got it to
Today my mom said I was lazy and had a lazy demon inside of me me for bed rotting and she also mocked me for saying she’s body shaming🙃 this what moms are supposed to do?
Anybody else hold in their tears when around others
My parents always say being tired from every day activities isn't anything with mental health. Just time rewinding back to my sixth grade year, I was bullied consistently over for having three learnings disabilities.1- Dyslexia| 2- Dyscalculia| 3- Short term memory recall.
So overall I was too scared to reach out to my teachers for help and support in class. Especially in math. I was failing numerous classes to the point I wanted to drop out.
Then it eventually got to the rate where my math teacher treated me like a rat. Telling my entire math period and all of his other periods that I had my disabilities. Which made everything *Worse*. After a few weeks, then I was forced into dating two people in the span of a week. Dating a girl, whom I didn't like whatsoever, considering I'm straight. Then forced into dating a boy who at the time was popular. Threatening that he'd turn the school against me if I didn't. So of course. I did. After three months we broke up considering I wasn't ready whatsoever. Then the next day in my gym class, i was playing soccer with my lonesome, considering all my friends ghosted me in seconds. Hearing them talking by the shed by the goal I was playing near. The words being : " Let's kill Sophie." then "But with what?" then to the answer of "bring guns to school." . Reporting the kids, who lied saying they didnt. Which overall got all of the parents involved, principal did nothing but filed a restraining order. WHAT WILL THAT DO? KEEPING SOMEONE FROM TALKING TO ME WHEN I HAD EVERY CLASS WITH THEM?! *Great job*. Headed to the police station across the street to file a sue to the teacher and students. But it closed as soon as we arrived.
It makes it 10 times worse that they still know my address after transferring districts.
To this day, I'm still extremely traumatized from these past incidents. Getting rarley any help.
You forgot “it’s just hormones”
Mine were great…. To my brother. I am ment to be the angel youngest child with loads of friends high grades and open minded. And I look like it from the outside but I have started cracking and I’m scared
EXACTLY!! THAT'S WHAT THEY SAY EVERY SINGLE DAY
My parents are the same way I told my therapist how I have been feeling and she called my parents I told her not to but she did anyway they told her I was just attention seeking and my therapist actually toke their side and when I go home I was yelled at I feel like everyone is against me and no matter how hard I try to explain nobody ever understands.
"why are you such an angry girl?" "you have nothing to be angry about, you live in a great house, outstanding education, and us. You're such an ungrateful brat" They just said that to me bruh
My republican uncle that I live with thinks my mental health as an "aesthetic" (for context I have AuDHD)
Me my grandma thought I was possessed
I feel this… I have adhd autism and anxiety and depression and they always call me lazy. That doesn’t help. That just makes me feel worse!! 😢 I need a hug please
“Mum I feel like I had adhd”
“No, your not crazy, people like that have nothing else better to do so stop talk that nonsense’
“…”
(Those are the exact words she told me)
my parents believe in mental health but my dad doesn’t believe that anti depressants actually help even though i need them
my mom and dad do believe in mental health, they just don’t care
I struggle with my mental health at the moment I’m finally getting help but the things is my stepdad doesn’t believe in mental health but I’m so grateful that I have my mum that does believe in mental health and she’s the one who has actually gotten me some professional help for my mental health
That's exactly how my parents are that's why i basically hide all my emotions and act happy so they can leave me alone also you're my happy place, you make me feel understood and you're my fav YouTuber 🙂
My parents think I don’t like them bc i’m in a phase where i think it’s cool to hate them, they also think i do sh for attention and all my problems are caused by hormones
My therapist said what my parents did was considered medical neglect
Someone understands
Yea…
I try to talk to my dad but ten seconds in he says “you’re making excuses” and “I don’t want to listen to your fake mental health”
How did you know 😭 it gust the same all over
My ADHD is not an excuse (don’t use it like one) my depression is just hormones (I can’t have hormones from year 4 to 7 right?)
A literal docter has told my christian perants that i have anxiety but they dont believe it and refuse to get me tested or even talk to me about it
I'm sorry but if ur parent says its a phase they are so ignorant
A PHA- A PHASE OF WHAT THE MOON
Quote from my dad: any emotion, no matter if it’s positive or negative, will not last forever. It will pass.
“You can feel safe to talk to us!” After what you said?..
My mom never believes me about my mental health and then she asks if I'm ok and then I try to explain and she just says that I'm lying or giving excuses 🙁
Seriously I wish I become a parent. I will be putting my kids and I will not blame mental illnesses on anything like that. They will be allowed to feel their feelings and have mental illnesses because it’s human and they’re real.
My mom has depression and she says I’m too happy to have depression. I’m too young to have problems.
There are no parents here, only children who are trying to reach out. My mom only see my mental health as an excuse and blames games for it. She told me to change my mindset and quit playing game. Even though, games are the only thing left keeping me living.
My mom has anxiety and depression well she’s gotten better but when I ask her for anything that can help she doesn’t believe when I say I have anxiety depression and a ed and when I told her I harm myself she yelled at me and said I was a attention seeker
“It’s social media influencing you!” Then “ give me your phone “
forgot to say the fact that you go untreated for all the illnesses you have and you have to learn to adapt to the mental illness on your own
yeahh.. so my mom said “you are too young for depression!” when i told her i wanted to die and had no motivation, and when i said “mom i think im lesbian “ she said “ its not true your mind is playing tricks on you, so shut up!” so yeah sorry for saying so much.
My mom doesn’t believe in sensory issues and makes me wear stuff that’s uncomfortable for me and she just says “stop faking”
“You’re doing it for attention.” Said by my own parents btw.
They always say “you can talk to me about anything” but then when you do they that your making things up that your making excuses, that your just being dramatic and that you are to young to have any real problems.
I am a 10 year old with ADHD and parents do not really care about I have it Which is why I prefer to stay alone with nobody
Yep and when i ask if i can get a plushie (for emotional support) they say “no no no no too expensive” then my lil bro walks in with a 70 dollar lego set he is FIVE
Litt I have contamination ocd and my parents do all those things to me (not attention seeking)