This Is How Level 99 Empathy Looks Like
In psychology, one of the strongest signs of emotional intelligence is the inability to fully hate someone once you understand the reasons behind their behavior. This is called cognitive empathy. The ability to see the world through someone else’s perspective, even when their actions have caused harm. People with this level of awareness often feel torn. They understand too much to stay angry, but still carry the pain. Sometimes they just wish someone would understand them the way they understand others. If that hit a little too close, click that follow button because Enchant might know you more than you know
Do you often find yourself putting others’ feelings and needs before your own? Are you an empathetic person who can understand others painfully well? While having the ability to understand others can be a blessing, it can also be a curse. In this video, we explore the darker side of empathy and how it can affect our mental and emotional well-being. Learn how to set boundaries, prioritize your own needs, and avoid emotional exhaustion.
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Thanks for addressing that nd yeah it hit close n yeah I'm following
Yep that's why I feel that way and that's why I have nobody to hate when my friends ask me really who do I hold grudges on…
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its called being healthy and not being ruled by the parasites of egos … applying egos dumbs you significantly down that you organically shrink your brain.
being your true authentic self is now phrased as a growth mindset. being in ego is applying a dogmatic mindset.
I’m js a teenager, but I really just don’t feel hate, that’s sometimes a good thing but it sometimes I am just walked all over, but I don’t know what to do rn because some of my friends are mad at eachother, especially when they bring me into it, they tell my that they hate the other one and I just feel like no one around me understands how I feel. I’ve also had ppl use me too but all of them are traumatized and just need help so I can’t just hate them, they rlly need help they just don’t know how to receive it. It’s weird because emotional intellegence is really a good thing to have, but it’s really stressful when no one else is
so… im emotional smart
This is me 😢
Nah eff that. I have all 3 types of empathy. When someone KNOWS they’re broken but continues to do the harmful behaviors, I start to loathe them 🎉
So I can’t deal with spilling my milk but I’m technically emotionally intelligent because psychology is a pseudo science
As a teenager, I won't label myself to have this but I have high empathy on others. Thank god I found this video.
I say ill never talk to them again f them …call themselves a friend… blah blah…within 24 hours ive pulled some sort of mental gymnastics to now think im completly wrong …even tho most the time im not …whats that mean?
I used to be Catholic, until they all turned their back on me for saying I prayed for Lucifer, I did so not because I wanted to be evil but because I know knew he's the one that needed it the most…. I'm agnostic now 🖤
Dam…..😢
This is why i have so many issues with people and in situations. Its hard for me to remind myself that not everyone is like me or feels like me and care so much. I get frustrated sometimes because i dont understand why they dont understand but then i remember that im frustrated and thats okay but them not understanding like i do is also okay.
cn relate to this
i mean, yeah, the only person i can truly be mad at is myself because everyone else always has a valid reason to be how they are and i assume that.
Well I still hate one individual…
That really hit too close to home
Yep. I know this EXACTLY. Unfortunately. Because sometimes I really wish I COULD hate the people who've hurt abused and traumatized me.. I just can't because I understand why they did it. Not saying it makes what they did okay, but. I do get it.
I feel like this describe me. Is this common in the sense that it's written in a way that most people would recognize themself in the description ? Or am I just egotestical ? XD
I'm curious how those people feel when they learn about sociopaths or just generally people who have ill intenstions…
But one important addition… You don’t wanna push it to the point where they’re finally convinced you’re bad. Because since they're 100% positive you're a such person, be sure, there are no excuses for you anymore. You're dead for them.
😢it's true
Sometimes when I get very sad, annoyed or mad I feel bad for peaple when they feel my way and yes somtimes I wish peaple had my ability but Im learning goiwing
yep ok, i dont have that
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real lol
There was someone that hurt me veru bad and over a hundred other people in a mass almost cult situation, and for a long time i did not hate him because of this. It took yeats of therapy to suddenly realize one day that just because i understood why, that he still chose things. That it didnt matter. He didnt feel those feelings for others unless it benefited himself. He was extremely aware of what hw was doing and did things despite that. That day i realized it, i chose to not understand him anymore. I decided it wasn't worth my energy. Not when he hurt me so much. So many people. So many people say the only way to heal is to forgive and forget…. but sometimes, for some people, healing is taking back your forgiveness. How can i understand wanting to hurt people as the goal. And he had outright admitted it. He doesnt deserve my forgiveness and forgiving him paused my own healing for 5 years.
It is true and it is just how it works human empathy is one of the many reasons to believe in God because why would this be brought about
Yup, me
boah I think dat meh, danke for making this mr 🙂 have a good one
it can be frustrating, but at this point I have given up on finding someone who will understand me in the way I understand others, I'm just happy I can be there for my friends at least… although it's even more frustrating when you know the real reason behind someone's behaviors, but you also know that they won't accept it until they realize it themselves so you have to sneakily guide them to the right conclusion in a way that they can comprehend, and it's even worse when I realize there's something I'm not able to accept right away and I have to somehow do that to myself… it's weird having depression+anxiety and empathy because it's like, my brain keeps telling me other people don't like me but when I become rational I'm like "I've literally psychoanalyzed my friends' opinions of me for years and I know they cherish me, but sometimes it's easier to let myself believe it in the moment even if I know it's not true because it's mentally more difficult to logic myself out of an emotion than it is to let myself feel it and move on"
That hit hard
same
literally me..
Always crazy how people lack a lot of humanity and empathy.
I got to say that I cant still hate at all My ex-bestfriend, she does so many Bas things but she has a hard life in her house and she just wants a little Bit of attention
I am one of those people
But then when I feel bad for criminals and understand why they do what they do (not justifying), then everyone calls me an asshole and unhinged
So these types of people would view pedos and psychopaths as victims of something therefore they are inherently good?
This really struck me,😢 ,it feels like I am not alone in this situation 😊
Dear Sailors, I just started a new Discord server called Enchant's Zone where we can discuss these kinds of things. It's a great place to hang out and learn together, and even chat with me. You should totally join! Hope to see you there soon 🙂
Link is in the description of my Channel!
Oh so that means that I am dumb? 😅